It has just been on two occasions and it has all been memories that put smiles on my face…well…maybe not exactly the first but most surely, the second(smile). I do not believe in the “…fallen in love…”phrase but I believe in love. I feel one should not “fall” in love cause its easier to fall n’ break. I prefer when things go more naturally… Xoxo.

Nowadays, it seems the fallen term is used more frequently and it is working! Tell me how your man expressed his feelings to you? What terminology did he use? Please drop your answer in the comment section.

What does it mean when he says “…i’m in love…”? Does it sound real? When a guy uses this words, I feel he has not been attentive to his feelings for a while. Probably after a period of restlessness, he blaars the words out…lolz. Whichever way, as long as we both feel the same way dear, we are good to go. Ladies and gentlemen, go for love; it is real. Listen to Helplessly by Tatiana Manaois with me.๐Ÿ‘‡

Its not that easy with you here, but I know I want you to do you manage to keep me going but somehow you keep me from going...

This is a crazy feeling you know. A feeling where height, size, complexion, financial status, academic qualifications does not keep you away. IS THIS LOVE OR WHAT?Who would not wanna stay in it?mmm But, is there a thing as “sliding into love”? Lolz. Well even if there was not, let us make it a thing! You know that process when you are just silently examining each other? Taking note of the good and bad? You may not actually feel or want to feel anything at first. Your heart just starts to race at the very sight of the other or at the sound of the other’s voice etc but you still try to tell yourself that it ain’t time yet to start having those feelings. You might choose to hide it cause you wanna be sure the other person is on the same page with you or maybe you do not wanna appear too easy. But, how long do you think you can hold it in?

Tell me in the comment section which of this situations you or your partner have been in.

I have previously blogged about my first experience. In case you missed it, you can use this link to go to that blog and get updated. I am gonna dwell a bit on my second experience:๐Ÿ˜Š

It took him one year and few months to really get to me. I finally gave it a go and uhlahlah it was a bonfire; longest-relationship-ever!!! I must not fail to say that I learnt a lot during that one year. I learnt tolerance, peace, hope, trust, selflessness, boldness, FREEDOM! Yes, freedom from my own weakness! This is one lifetime encounter I will never forget. It was not easy for both together but we knew we needed to stay together to stay strong. There was also a need to accept our fate when we discovered we would be limited by one of life’s rule of existence. Let us keep up with the music shall we๐Ÿ‘‡

...I gotta go sometimes but you're always on my mind. See you distract me but i'm distracted without you...

Trust me, I love the feeling love gives. When you have found it, you feel content and happy knowing it is yours. I want to feel that way again and forever xoxo. It is all a matter of time. In the meantime, I would love to say this to my future husband; โ€œyou do not have to worry cause I have spent five(5) years of my praying to be the best I can be just for you. And, I know you are gonna be happy to have me๐Ÿ˜.โ€

The rest of Tatiana Manaois lyrics in today’s song is what I pray to feel for the man I will call My Man. I close my eyes and I smile cause I agree with the Bible when it says

As a man thinks in his heart, so he is

The Holy Bible.

ร‡a c’est pour mon futur mari. Tu sais que tu est l’amour de ma vie๐Ÿ‘‡

...I don't know how to focus baby teach me how to
Cause I'm standing still again...I hopelessly fall for you...
I'm not a coffee drinker but I lost sleep just thinking of you...
cause everywhere you go, I'll follow you.
I'll give you all of me, give me all of you...๐Ÿ˜˜
I hopelessly fall for you

Today I advice every couple to pick a song you will call our song. The lyrics should say exactly what your hearts say. Music is life believe it or not. It works a whole lot of magic.

We really have spoken about so many things today right? Hhahahha and it was so fun filled๐Ÿ˜‰. Now, you should be able to decide if you “are in love”, “fell in love” or “slid into love” with your partners and i am glad about that๐Ÿค—. We also, now know about my first and second love experiences!! I also wanna learn about yours too. And if possible, I will love to blog about it๐Ÿ˜‹. Finally, we went blues with our lovely Tatiana Manaois in her song Helplessly. Her lyrics are for the soul; very pure and real.

In conclusion to this blog, I will like to remind you to put your answers to the various questions in the comment section. I will be waiting to read and respond to them. If you have an experience of any kind you feel people need do learn from and you’ll like me to blog about it, send an email to me and let us discuss it! Also, you can follow me on my social media handles:

Instagram @official.melsa Facebook@melsadaily

Do not forget to stay safe and remember I love you all.



My name is Melsa and I'm a Nigerian (southeast). I am a 5'3" model with untameable love for content creating/developing! I write mostly inspirational blogs...i also niche to lifestyle, relationship, arts and craft....Did i mention i scout & coach models? well, now you know! I hope we'll have fun together here.

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