Hey! i just got off the phone with a friend and we had quite a discussion that took me back in time. I must say i find it funny the kind of things that inspires me to write these days. lol. So, we were having a girl talk and she started talking about how she was accused of doing something she had never thought of doing.

It’s really funny how we humans think…most especially towards someone dear/close to us. I believe it’s time for the holy Bible to add “Thou shall not have any false thought against your neighbor” in the ten(10) commandments. It’ll shock you to know that most suicide cases recorded are as a result of false accusation;false gossip. YES!! It usually starts with an individual who knows you so well.

No one will say he/she is not a victim of false accusation. It kills faster than suicide. Jeez! How can one possibly escape it? How do we contain it? How do we move on after such experience? Please, comment your advises and suggestions. You could be saving someone who is thinking of committing suicide.

Can you just hear me out?

So, my discussion with this lady was rather touching: Its about how her friend went about spreading a rumor that she sleeps around with a guy(i won’t write names). The said guy happened to be a friend of hers and they were often seen together. Now, it happened that this lady(rumor bearer) is the roommate of my friend. And this guy is their neighbor…What a world? I can’t say if the two ladies had a clash that could birth the issue but it was a really tough one. No one believed my friend when she said the accusation wasn’t true and the neighbor guy was really working hard to clear both their names…wait a minute guys, right now, should i call this an accusation or a rumor? Please, tell me in the comment section.

Is someone imagining the pain this lady was feeling during this period? The climax of the whole situation was that she had a boyfriend and he(boyfriend) heard it all and couldn’t bear it! They started having issues soonest and separated thereafter. I don’t know but i expect my boyfriend to stand by me through thick n nail. You can’t just bail on me when i need you the most!

At this juncture i wanna say something to especially the ladies out there- If you like someone or you’re crushing on someone and your friend or best friend is pretty close to that person, kindly discuss your emotion with your friend or best friend and confirm what’s going on between them! Don’t go about destroying and ruining people’s lives for your selfish gains!!!! You may end up ruining your friend’s life or reputation but there is no guarantee that you will end up with your dream man. PERIOD!

Back to the story(its a real life story), the misconception was later resolved and this two roommates don’t go so well like before. The runaway boyfriend hasn’t come back to his girl and the neighbor guy and my friend are still close…[I need a glass of water]…

…an unforgettable experience…

I’m back guys xoxo…Okay i must say that was a hell of an unforgettable experience for my friend. We all have our encounters right? lol.

May i describe my experience here?…mmmmmmmm…You know what, i’ll just leave it for the next blog which will be the part 2 of this blog. Anticipate lovelies. xoxo.

I understand we have been judgmental as to what you would do if you were in the shoes of my friend or the neighbor guy or the runaway boyfriend and trust me, i have been judgmental too. But for sure, i wouldn’t ditch on my girlfriend when she needs me the most.

In conclusion dears, If you have an experience you’ll love me to blog about, inbox me on my email by clicking here and let’s discuss your blog together!

Also, please drop your comments on the questions i asked in the blog. I would be waiting to view them and i sure can’t wait to see your stories on my email too! Anticipate the second part of this blog and remember, i love you! xoxo



My name is Melsa and I'm a Nigerian (southeast). I am a 5'3" model with untameable love for content creating/developing! I write mostly inspirational blogs...i also niche to lifestyle, relationship, arts and craft....Did i mention i scout & coach models? well, now you know! I hope we'll have fun together here.


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